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Does anyone have any tips for giving blowjobs? I really want to pleasure my boyfriend and i havent had much experience i have only done this with him which is nice, i have sucked him off but i cant take it all in my mouth most of it i can but all i kind of choke on it and i want to teach myself not to choke and if you have any tips for like licking and sucking in certain ways please tell :) xxx thankyou | | there is a you tube video that will show you appropriatley or you could watch and adult movie to see if you are doing it right, all i know is dont use teeth gl | Is my penis too small? My girlfriend says it's not, but I don't believe her. Is 9.5-10 inches small for a 16 year old? If my penis was big, wouldn't she be choking on it when she gave me blowjobs? | | it's not small, but it's not too big to choke on. Stop trippin'. | I have got a new girlfriend but I don't feel the same way about her as she does about me... some problems? Well I started going out with this girl just recently, met through a mutual friend. Since then I have been seeing her almost every day.
Some context... I am 23, she is 18. Not a very experienced 18 either. I think she was a virgin before I met her. I do not actually prefer younger girls particularly, but personality counts more than age anyway.
Well anyway, I've been going out with her and it's OK but I get the feeling she likes me a lot, which is good, but somehow I can't say the same about her. It's like I've been let down too many times by girls in the past and she may not have had that experience with guys. Am I finally getting what I want handed to me on a plate or is she just naive? Is my self-esteem that low that because she really likes me, I must question whether I could do better, or start wishing I could be with the last girl I dated a year ago? I really do wonder, and it makes me feel bad.
So I've been taking her out places and I have plans to take her out some other places; it's been alright but I feel it's gonna get a little mundane after a while. Not sure how much I genuinely do have in common with her. Would it be a good idea to take some time away from her or only see her now and then or what? I am certainly trying to do my best to do interesting stuff with her and this will continue.
When we're sitting in her room it's just boring though. I kiss her and stuff and I don't think I feel it like she does. The story of my life has just been that people come and people go and that I really can't bring myself to believe that anyone is special or that anyone is right for me.
Also, sexual activity is involved. I touch her body a lot and have been fondling her breasts and clit. She likes that. Also, I have been teaching her to give me blowjobs and handjobs but she isn't that good at it, and she ended up almost choking on my penis today because I couldn't fit much beyond the head of my erect penis in her mouth. I don't think she knows how to 'act sexy', as it were.
I know this will sound shallow, but the girl is pretty chubby as well. Which is not really a problem for me but I'm not sure I want to stick with a girl who is heavy to lift up all the time. I dunno, it's nitpicking. I don't know. Please help. | | I know the feeling because I've been there myself. It's probably not really the weight or even the sexual things. Those things could all be worked out if you really cared about her, but the chemistry just isn't right. Sometimes that's just the way it is and it's hard to understand why. I hate to say it, but you may just have to break up with her if you feel like you're leading her on because you don't feel the way she does. That's what I did. | HOW DO I STOP HATING WOMEN ? PLEASE RESPOND YOU DONT HAVE TO READ THE WHOLE STORY I KNOW ITS TOO LONG
Im 17 and still a virgin. The problem aint the girls, I get plenty attention and interest from those. Ive had several girls show interest in me over the last months in my new school. I know it sounds kinda stupid, but I kinda "hate" women. NO Im NOT gay, its just,, wel multiple things. When I was a guy my mom cheated on my dad and I caught her one time. My babysitter always invited guys over for sex when she was babysitting me. and I could see her having sex with guys in the livingroom and it was very disgusting and scary because I was like 6. Also my female neighbors were always cheating on their husbands, I could see it because when their husbands went to work theyd invited guys over who looked like villians. When I was 14 my first job as a dishwasher I got pretty much raped by my female boss, when I had to work late. When I was 15 I tried to lose my virginity with a girl I thought was nice but when I said I was a virgin she dumped me. When I started going out I always saw girls cheating on their boyfriends, even nice looking girls.
Im trying to like women and I really do (Im not gay) but its very hard, because of the experiences Ive had with women. Several girls showed interest in me over the last months in school, but I turned them down even though thye looked nice. Now Im trying to read about women so maybe I find out theyre not really that evil and Ive just had bad luck. So I try to read like women blogs and stuff like that. But it is all about women having rape fantasies, wanting hardcore sex, cheating and stuff. I saw this documentary about male strippers that women invite to their bachelotte parties and stuff, and they give all give him blowjobs and have sex with him in public, even though some of them wair wedding rings and have boyfriends and stuff. Even the grandma joined in. I was very shocked that women can be so heartless.
Now, Im trying to give this new girl a change and she looks kinda nice. I try to prepare myself to have sex with her so that I know what girls want in bed. But all I find is that girls want rough harcore sex, like a "badboy" in bed, have rape fantasies and stuff like that. Then I search rough sex on youporn, but I dont watch that much porn so I was pretty shocked. The girl looked like she was in pain, the guy looked like a villian, and she was being choked and stuff. I thought how can a girl like this, but all the comments under the vid was girls saying "OMG I love this, I want to be f*cked like this, I wish my boyfriend f*cked me like this !!!!" But the girl in the vid looked really nice, like the girl Im in love with...
Now, I have lost pretty much ALL respect for women. I really want to date a girl, but its very hard for me. Im afraid Im gonna wind up like some serial killer...... Or more likely gonna do suicide. I am very serious not being dramatic. Seeing how evil women are, the world really in its core is really depressing to me. Its not only about women though, its other stuff to. Ive already tried to commit suicide once, but I got so drunk before jumping I fell asleep on the roof and woke up with a hangover lol. I am very sick of this dog eat dog world.
Now How do I stop hating women ? Are all women evil, or are there also girls who not only look nice but actually are nice ? | Ask yourself this: Which is worse, a women cheating on a man or a man cheating on a woman?
Answer: No contest. A women cheating on a man is FAR worse. Is this a double standard? Yup...and ignore double standards in life at your peril. To understand why this is true you need understand men and women at the PRIMAL level of behavior. At the primal level, sex = passing your DNA to the next generation. If a guy is born, a woman KNOWS the guy is his but a man ONLY has his TRUST that the woman has been faithful. DNA Death = Not having your DNA passed on. So when a woman cheats (doesn't matter if she gets pregnant or not), she is attacking a man at his core being. And any man that does not take offense to this is NOT a real man... Embrace your primal level as a man for it will give you your best chance at happiness in your life...
Your relationship with your mother will largely dictate your relationship w/ women. And since she was a cheating whore, she gave you a warped view of women. This warped view is SABOTAGING your quest in finding a good woman. I would 1st confront your mother and don't hold anything back. Tell her she screwed you up with female relationships and now you hate women and it is HER fault. Ask her to explain why she cheated on your Dad. If she tries to say it is none of your business tell her BS. Tell her you DESERVE to know the answer. Put her on the hot seat. Don't look at her as your mother but as an EQUAL that harmed you and now SHE needs to MAKE AMENDS by first explaining herself. Tell her it was HER fault for hiring a baby sitter that had sex in front of you. Put her on the defensive. Raise your voice if you need to until she tells you the truth. And if she refuses to talk about tell her over-and-over, 'You did this to me and I DESERVE an answer". And guess what you might be surprised at her answer. Perhaps you might even understand her self destructive behavior and have a little more empathy for her. You might find out she has been victimized in her life as well (don't be surprised if she was molested when she was younger or something equally bad. You would be surprised how common this is and molested girls either turn out to be nymphos or frigid. There seems to be no in between with woman who have been victimized this way).
As for finding good girls I ***LOVE*** Mormon girls. If I had to pick the most loyal, good nature, and trustworthy women it would be no contest. Morman girls are the best. Those Mormans know how to raise their women right. Now I'm an atheist so most mormon girls don't go for me :( but trust me on this about morman girls (no sex before marriage for most of them). I'm not saying 100% of mormon girls are angels but I am saying you would have to work hard not to find a virtuous mormon girl. But with as jaded as you are with women, I would not pursue a mormon girl until you have a come-to-Jesus talk with your mother. And if you leave your mother crying, then you will KNOW you did the job right...
Look your hatred is NOT your fault. You have NOT failed. It was your mother that FAILED you... Confront your mother in an emotional in-your-face talk and TRY to understand what made her the way she is... If things work out, you will gain some sympathy towards her and that will be the 1st step in breaking the chains which sabotage you with having a true connection with a woman. And is it not ironic that bettering your relationship w/ your mother is the 1st step in your healing? And guy, when you get a woman who you share a TRUE connection w/, life can be very joyous. Stop letting the past poison your life... |
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