I cant help but feel im a gay asian guy? im gay. there i said it. but how do i live through it without getting harassed. when my friends go "oh man look at the breasts on them", im thinking about the strong armed, hottie hunk of man muscle on the other side of the room...oh my god, wet dreamzzzz y'all!! but anyway, how do i get over my selfhomophobia?
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i55.tinypic.com/2yytt1l.jpg <--- me and all my glory. am i bad looking? DOUBTS! |
| No you are not bad looking at all, your very cute. you will just have to learn to be okay with your self in time. |
Why are gay guys so hung up about types? Ok Im an ordinary guy next door. Ok looking, not muscle fit but not severely overweight either. However I find that it's hard to find someone special because gay guys always want gymfit muscle marys or slim slender smooth go-go boy types. You must wear the right labels, have the right cosmetics and be a size O. Amazingly even the most awful dogs sometimes put in their dating profile - only hunks need apply.
I find that in the straight world women are not so hung up to find a hunk and Im pretty popular as a "potential huband" to my female acquantances who are not aware of my sexuality. They often get disappointed when i tell them Im more into blokes and they often say if ever i turn straight they would date me. Why is that? Are gays that shallow?
I find that it's especially bad among Asian gays. If you are over 30 you're past it (unless you're rich). If you dont wear the right labels or not muscle-y you're not worth knowing. It's no wonder that people like myself do not settle down with a guy. |
| You got me. It's like as soon as your 30 your an old man and at 40, you turn into this disgusting twink leach, leaving trails of video games and candy down to your basement. I'm interesting and attractive, with a great job. What do they have to offer in return? Clumsy sex? Who the f-ck wants a guy who can't go away for a weekend with you because his grandma's coming to visit? |
Gays: What kind of guys attract you the most? I'm into cute guys of all races, but tan blonde guys tend to drive me nuts. i also get excited by hot asians (harry shum jr..drool) or spanish hunks. what about you? Is there a specific race or look that you're attracted to? |
| handsome face is what attracts me first, then im drawn to the athletic/toned bodies, i love muscles XD |